How you know a Man is not Ready to get Married
There are various signs to look for when it comes to men and their level of commitment. Some men are not ready to get married. Unfortunately, certain men will not divulge the information to their lovers. The good news is that you are about to have the information needed to spot the "red flags" in a relationship.
He doesn't include you in his long term plans
When a man is thinking about marrying you or even making you someone special in his life, he will include you in his 5 year plans. For example, he will say "First, I'll finish my education and then I will spend time building our relationship. This is a good sign because it shows that the man is interested in seriously. However, if you've known him for more than a year and he hasn't opened up and shared anything personal with you, he is not interested in a serious relationship
He still considers you his "friend"
If you've been spending a lot of time with him and he still considers you a friend, he is not interested in making you his main woman. He looks at you as a hang out person. He may even consider you "one of the guys".
He shies away from a commitment
If you've been dating a man for more than 2 years and he refuses to commit, this means he is not ready to make you his wife. If you find yourself bringing it up from time to time, this is bad news. He should be the one asking you for a commitment. The reasons he doesn't one are many. It could be that you are not his type of that he is simply not ready to stop play around. Don't force him to do something he doesn't want to do.
Will not introduce you to his family
When it has been years and you haven't met the family, you might as well give up. A man who wants to marry a woman is going to introduce you to his family. He will not want to hide you. He will be so proud that he will show you off the first chance he gets. Anytime you ask a man to meet his family and he avoids it, beware. What he is telling you is that you are just a "fling" or someone to have fun with.
Pressures you for sex
Anytime a man pressures you to have sex with him, he is not thinking about you. A man who doesn't think about you is not someone whom you would want to marry. He is probably not serous about making you his wife either.
A man knows what he wants from the beginning. If he wants to marry you, let him be the one to make the move.
