How to get him to Marry you
Want to get married, but having trouble getting him to take "the next step"? If you want to "land" your man ladies then you need to read this carefully.
The first, and most important, thing of all is: Do Not Under Any Circumstance move in with a man before the wedding. Now I'm sure that there are some women out there who have gotten married after living with their boyfriend, but not as many that would have surely gotten married if they hadn't!
When a woman is not living with a man it greatly reduces the amount of gripping that comes from a woman. Now ladies, I promise that all women are forced to gripe at men eventually. If all men would just mind there would be no gripping, but unfortunately they don't mind. We are forced repeatedly to ask them to take out the trash, put their dishes in the dishwasher, put the toilet lid down, don't toot in the bed and pull the covers over our heads, etc... If you are in separate households these are not issues, and trust me, you do not want to address a lot of these issues until you have a ring on your finger and a marriage license in your furry little hand.
Second, make sure that you let him know that he was your first at something pertaining to your life. This does not have to necessarily be sexual, (but it definitely wouldn't hurt) it can be something you've eaten with him, or some place you've gone, or maybe he got you to go on a ride that you where too scared to go on with anyone else but he made you comfortable enough to do it. I'm not saying to lie to him, if there isn't something that he has been the first at, then do something that will be your first time and maybe his as well. If you don't have anything that he can be first at, LIE Girl, Lie! Men like to feel like they have helped a woman to accomplish or do something that they wouldn't have done without them.
The last thing,(for now) is do not put anyone else first. If this is truly the man that you want to spend the rest of your life with then treat him as such. Your mother, father, siblings, friends and other extended family will not be living with you for the rest of your life. They will not be the ones to go and get you tampons in the middle of the night, see the first sonogram's of your children, be there with you day in and day out until you are old and withered talking on and on about the weather. Yes, even your own children will eventually leave the home to have a life of their own. This person that you have chosen to be your life long companion should always come first, because they will be there last.
Do not take marriage lightly, it should not be viewed as something that if you do not like it you can always get out of it later. Remember that the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence, it's actually artificial turf. Treat him as if he is the only one, because he should be. And try to remember not to be jealous. Jealousy is reserved for middle school and high school. If you want to get married it is time to grow up. If he is going to cheat he is going to cheat, and you turning pea green and being a witch sure isn't going to stop him.
