Dating should Men or Women take the first Initiative – Men
Well, since we are talking about a man, then yes for many reasons. Although it depends where you live too, as values differ today then they did way back when. Although if you look at it this way, its respect to the women and for another it shows her levels of what kind of a man you are.Do you have what it take to date a lady? Now ladies, don’t get frazzled by this statement because you are all ladies. In today’s society it is just that I am trying to establish what a man, with good qualities should do is all. If I am to understand it right, the first impression is what counts here. You don’t want to fumble it or it just might be your last date.Another reason why a man should make the first step is that women have a really sensitive side. If approached right then your on your way. Well maybe, and if not you will definitely loose when it comes to round two for the next date.Besides this if you have a high stance for respecting a lady this will come naturally. That is what comes to mind and for another there is no harm done by asking. I mean what’s the worst that can happen, other then her saying no for whatever the reason?Taking this to a reflection now, when I was dating, I came to find out I was shy. It was of that reason alone I missed out, because only years later I did find this out, that this lady very much wanted to go out with me. Because of one's own insecurity, well let’s just say you snooze you lose. She even waited for a good while.Oh well, guys don’t make the same mistake it might be a big regret. Heaven only knows we have enough of them as life rolls the way that it does. If for nothing else as it is seen even now chivalry is cool thing. That is what is heard, so get out there and have a good time. Anything is better then sitting on the sofa watching repeats of what you should be doing.Who knows, she might be the one you are looking for. Oh yes, don’t forget the flowers and by all accounts, use your manners. Pull the chair out for her before you sit. As for the car door, make that gesture, assess the situation, this way you’re on top of things from the start. If not she will show you the door.
