Making a perfectly romantic proposal of marriage
Composing the perfect romantic proposal at this time offers more creativity than ever before. Today's advances in equal opportunities indicate the proposal can originate from either participant, resulting in a loving truce in the battle of the sexes.With recent expanded developments in the legality of marriage, the proposal may originate from one of two participants of the same sex. However, for the sake of simplifying these tips, they’ll be limited here to the determined man taking the initiative in proposing to his beloved woman, those these tips could apply to anyone.Before getting down on one knee, seek adviceIn anticipation of reciting your perfect romantic proposal, take a stark reality check. First ask your parents and/or friends to give honest opinions of your intentions and intended mate. Do they have any serious warnings or objections for you? You won’t be in the mood to listen to negative words about her, but respect the feelings of those who care about you and your future.Peer into the futureIf your proposal is accepted, think seriously of what the results will be, other than undying romantic love for a lifetime of wedded bliss. It means sharing everything with another person, living together, financial responsibilities, children and many other details and serious responsibilities. Be sure you’ve considered the everyday reality beyond the romantic haze of your immediate desire to mate.Choose the perfect time and locationRealize that your proposal will be a critical moment in both lives. Some men have succeeded with a casual question in a bar, car or bedroom: “Hey, wanna get hitched?” However, chances are more meaningful when you pick the most romantic setting and timing, including the traditional kneeling routine.Of course, presenting an engagement ring after that moment will be the perfect conclusion to your plan. It’s traditional to propose when the two of you are alone. However, if you’re creative, it may be effective if you propose at a family gathering or restaurant. Consider while sitting together at the ballpark to arrange for the scoreboard to flash a sudden public announcement asking her by name to marry you.For lasting memories, the setting for your proposal should be exciting. It can be even more enjoyable to her if you pop the question while traveling, such as on a carriage ride through Central Park, standing together on the rim of the Grand Canyon or during the gondola ride on the Venice Canal in Italy or Las Vegas.Be confident your proposal will be acceptedNothing can be more discouraging and painful than to have your proposal of marriage rejected. While you may want to keep the surprise element until the actual moment of popping the question, consider planting some hints in advance.For example, use creative remarks when your relationship has progressed to the point where you’re literally going steady. When you’re together in a department store, a remark about choosing furniture could help pave the way. A request to look at houses or apartments can be an even more meaningful exposure of your intentions. With good vibrations, you'll know when she's ready for the question.A proposal of marriage today, despite all the political and social distractions, can be the most enjoyable moment in a couple’s lives. If you do it right, it won’t just result in acceptance, it will be the foundation of a lifetime of loving togetherness.
