ALT-7 Views on Marrying Young
I made the biggest decision in my entire life when I was nineteen. That was the time that true love knocked my heart and decided to marry the man of my life. I was little bit obstinate. My husband and I, decided to get married even though I am too young to enter into a married life. Considering that we both confident and felt secured that we made the right decision and we both ready financially and emotionally . My parents was little bit concerned because I am too young to settle down. They even asked me, "Are you sure you want to do this?" But my husband and I, was so deeply in love and both committed to each other and want to be together, so we decided to get married anyway. That's what we heard all the time, "Love conquers all."
I've experienced criticism, because of my age, but I just ignored it. For that reason, my husband and I, made an effort and our marriage so far, remarkably worked out and we're blessed to have a two beautiful daughters which really a great experienced. I understand, that marriage is a complex decision and the concept of it is broader than what we think.
For me, marriage required a highest maturity level, better understanding, and high chemistry for both. Commitment and responsibility comes with it as well. Age doesn't really matter I supposed, when we think that the right person comes along and at the right time, we should go for it, why not? Life is short and finding the right person that fulfill our hearts and looking for happiness that satisfy us would be hard to find. When we fall in love,we feel it and we vanquish every criticism that we heard.
It shouldn't be problem if we decide to get married, even age criticism it bothers you, what's really important, your good intention and willingness to commit to each other in a marriage. And when I reflect six and a half years ago, I just laugh about it and of course, I learned a lot for every moment and it changed the whole scenario of my life. It helped me to become more matured wife and I have a better understanding what marriage is all about.
For the moment, my husband and I, we both grateful for each other and live happily without any doubt and regret. We both believed that age, would not be a big issue in a relationship or in a certain marriage. Acceptance, love, consideration and patient,are the attributes that requires in a successful marriage.
