ALT-26 Best Reasons to Marry
Most at times, people marry for the wrong reasons and live to regret it within the twinkle of an eye. I once heard of a young man who fell in love with a high school friend who won a beauty contest, simply because she was then popular. He desired to be known as the husband of the town beauty and the most popular person. And it wasn't long before they had a divorce. This is a typical example of individuals marrying for the wrong reason.So what are the best reasons that a person should have in mind before getting married? Detailed below are four reasons to marrying.1. To Love and Be LovedThis is perhaps the ultimate reason to marry and one which must be practiced in good faith. Sometimes, people make the mistake of feigning love instead of showing it. And this is true, especially between partners who never fell in love but lusted for each other. And as soon as they satisfy their sexual pleasure they tend to lose interest in each other and get set for divorce.It is thus necessary that before you take the marriage vow, you make sure that your really in love with your would be partner. Love is such a beautiful thing. To love someone and be loved is one thing that makes life interesting and exciting. Even, the mere thought of knowing that there is someone who loves you more than him/herself is something that can keep you going. It's enough motivation for living.So, before you marry, be sure that you really love your partner and expect the best from him/her. Loves is one thing that binds a marriage and at the same time keeps the Earth turning on its axis.2. ComfortYes. This is one thing we all need. In life, times will come in which we will need someone to lean on, someone to comfort us and tell us that all shall be well. And in troubled times, it's more effective when you are being comforted by someone who loves you and who you also love.So why not get married and feel how sweet is to comforted by someone who loves you. It's one thing that can wash your tears away and make you believe that all is not lost. You'll feel motivated to stand up and though out any problem you're having.However, you must also be prepared to give the same comfort and care you'll get from your husband or wife.3. To Make a FamilyDidn't you enjoy yourself when you were young? Well, I did. I loved nothing more than being thrown into the air by my father and being pampered by my parents. It's great when you are young and know that you have people who will provide your every need and give you the affection you desire.
When you get married for the purpose of making a family, you're on the road to self fulfillment and happiness provided your finances are averagely stable. Seeing your children playing and shouting in the garden is such a lovely thing. It will give you internal contentment and make your life more lively and purposeful.4. Financial SecurityGoing into a marriage with the reason of becoming financially stable is also good, as long as you go about it professionally. If you're a spendthrift who likes hearing nothing about budgeting don't take this as a reason for getting married. You'll only end up ruining the financial future of you and your partner.It is therefore necessary that you become financially disciplined yourself before you move on the above reason to get married. If you do, then there is no reason why you and your partner should not have the financial prosperity and wealth you desire. (I recommend thisarticleif you want to know how you can become financially disciplined.)Marriage is all about sharing, and you can also share your income and expenses. It's a great way of controlling and handling your finances.NB: To learn more about the financial benefits of getting marriedclick here.
